We’ll take two…make that six

 

Do you ever catch a glimpse of yourself in the mirror and think, “I am such a stereotype?”

Last night Mike and I went to a Crate and Barrel wedding registry party. Even though I’ve dreamed of this moment since I first heard about Crate and Barrel, it was so hard to take it seriously. I felt like such a yuppie. We even dressed the part. And so did everyone else.

They gave us some snacks and drinks, then taught us how to use the scanner gun, and we off on our merry way.

There’s something so bizarre about registering for wedding gifts. A part of you feels like: Wow we’re adults, we need to decide exactly how our adulthood is going to look – right down to the napkin holders. 

 

And then you realize that this milestone of adulthood is going to be paid for by others, which is about the most unadult-like thing you can do. Which made us really giddy.

Without the burden of having to pay for anything, we forgot all modesty and started adding everything we could get our greedy little paws on. “Sure we need a sausage grinder! In fact, lets get two.”

There were representatives from all the major appliance lines like Kitchenaid, Cuisinart  and Wüsthof. They asked us all these questions about our lifestyle as a couple, and I’m not going to lie to you, I felt the pressure to impress. To the knife company we said, “Oh I simply must have a good serrated knife. I bake bread every day and it’s so hard to find a good knife these days.” To the blender people we said, “Oh we make our own cat food, of course, so it’s very important that we find the right tool for grinding entire chickens.” To the popcorn machine sellers, “Does this come with a fluffer feature? I’m very concerned about my air-popped popcorn being extra airy.” With each statement about who we were as a couple, I could hear my voice sounding more and more British, and my nose going higher and higher.

We couldn’t admit that we eat out most nights.

Now I know all of you are just dying to get us a gift (hahaha), so here’s our registry. It’s not much but we’ve been living together for over 3 years so it took a lot of effort to find things we still need.

Does anyone have any other suggestions for places to register? We thought about doing a smart registry (one where you ask for money for specific things like cocktails on your honeymoon, or the future toilet in your future first home), but I was shocked to see that those sites usually charge 7% commission for each gift.

 

 

10 comments

  1. Amazon is a good place to register! You can also make up your own wish list and post it online say, on your Heso site!
    Bed Bath & Beyond
    Groupon Coupons are great.
    xoxo,
    Mom

  2. I loved reading this! I also know how you feel. My fiance and I have lived together over five and a half years, so our registry at Bed Bath & Beyond was quite small. So in addition to that, we registered at honeyfund.com. You can design your own honeymoon registry. It’s entirely in your control, so you decide what goes on there, what denominations should be available, and how many of each you want. For example, we’re staying at one hotel for four nights, so we registered for six $10 gift certificates to the breakfast restaurant at the hotel. Your guests pay through PayPal, and they keep a very small percent – maybe 2.5%? Here’s ours in case it would be easier to see an example: http://www.honeyfund.com/wedding/joshandsherry

    Some people (my mother and brother) said that it’s tacky, but once you’ve lived together for so many years, there’s not a lot household items you still need.

    Besides, I think the dollar dance is tacky, but my brother was appalled to hear we aren’t doing one. Tacky is in the eye of the beholder.

    1. Thanks for telling me about honeyfund. They definitely have the lowest fee. And congratulations on your upcoming wedding. Only a week away!!! I had never heard of the dollar dance but I can imagine it would make me feel like a stripper.

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