As I said in the last post, I’m making a movie with my friend Caroline!
While it’s easy to research how to make a movie online, I’m addressing some of the crucial, universal steps that often get overlooked with any major project.
This step is so simple and so obvious, but, yet, so many people fail to do it.
Step 2: Show up
This simple step is two-fold. One, make concrete plans. Two, follow them.
Here’s an example of the infuriating email exchange I have way too often:
Them: … I’d love to meet up and talk further …
Me: … I’m free for coffee the next two Sundays, or I can work around your schedule if Sunday’s not possible. Just let me know!
Them: Yay! I’d love to catch up.
Me: Great! What is your schedule like?
Them: (three months later) Sooo Sorry, my schedule got super busy. Can we still meet up?
Me: … I’m available after 6pm any day next week.
Them: no response.
If you want to make things happen, you have to commit to a date. Be proactive and offer concrete options, not vague plans. Yes, you might end up having to say no to another event that sounds cooler, but it’s worth it.
Now for the second part of this step. Sometimes you can’t show up no matter how hard you try. Last week, my back was killing me and I had to cancel lots of plans. But in general, make every effort to keep your word. If you plan to meet at 7pm on a Tuesday, show up at 6:50 on a Tuesday. This will get you far in life.
I knew Caroline and I were going to hit off before we even met because in our first email exchange, we made concrete plans, and then we both showed up. Seems simple, but somehow it’s still rare.
Stay tuned for more steps! A lot’s happening and I can’t wait to share it with you 🙂